Facing the truth as a white HSP

Facing the truth as a white HSP

I began my last newsletter by saying,   In the week since I drafted this article, violence has erupted across the U.S. and here in Rochester following the murder of George Floyd by a policeman in Minneapolis. I need to respond to this, and I know instant responses are... Read more
Why is it so hard just to be yourself?

Why is it so hard just to be yourself?

Is it OK just to be yourself? Reflecting deeply on this question can reveal the next steps on your  path to healing anxiety and shame. Last October, I published a post called I can only relax when I’m alone.  That article got more responses than any other I had ever... Read more
“I can only relax when I’m alone”

“I can only relax when I’m alone”

Have you ever heard yourself say, “I can only relax when I’m alone”? Sensitive people are keenly attuned to people around us, and for some of us this attunement can morph into exhausting vigilance. Read on to understand how this pattern develops and... Read more
How to avoid getting in over your head

How to avoid getting in over your head

I’ve been surprisingly stressed for the past several months. I say “surprisingly” because I generally keep myself well-fed, watered, exercised, and rested, and I’m lucky to have a happy life. I’ve been busy, but that’s nothing new. And while challenges have come... Read more