Are you cloudy with a chance of overwhelm?

Are you cloudy with a chance of overwhelm?

In the chaotic year after I left my marriage, I put my oboe on the shelf. After years of performing and teaching, it was a big change to work as a sort of Girl Friday for an arts organization. It wasn’t a bad change, but it was a big one, and my emotional state... Read more
12 reasons sensitive people love Focusing

12 reasons sensitive people love Focusing

When I was a kid, my grandfather taught my sister and me how to paddle and steer our red canoe. He had just one condition: if we wanted to venture out of his sight, we had to capsize the canoe then figure out how to get it back to the dock. His big worry was drowning,... Read more
The key to shedding shame

The key to shedding shame

Remember the Incredible Hulk? The huge, raging green guy in the torn pants? I’d never offer him up as a model for emotional self-regulation. But we highly sensitive people (HSPs) have a lot to learn from the Hulk’s utter disregard for his clothes. Why?... Read more