How to stay calm in the face of current events

How to stay calm in the face of current events

When I opened the paper last Tuesday and saw the news about the San Bernardino massacre, I physically recoiled. My stomach tightened. As I turned away and shut my eyes, a cry came out of me: a pained noise, no words. Then, as questions crowded into my mind, I turned... Read more
Short on sleep? Caution: there’s rough road ahead

Short on sleep? Caution: there’s rough road ahead

Sensitive people need their sleep. Period. Take this from someone who once tried her hardest to ignore that, and paid the consequences. In college, I had a huge crush on a fellow student who believed it was a waste of life to sleep for more than six hours a night. I... Read more
Feeling anxious? Invite the perspective of Presence

Feeling anxious? Invite the perspective of Presence

For many of us who are highly sensitive, anxiety comes with the territory. If you feel anxious, the first thing to do is to come into Presence with the part of you that is anxious. Focusing offers you specific skills you can use right away to help find the... Read more
“How long will it take me to heal?”

“How long will it take me to heal?”

“How long will it take me to heal this? Is there hope for me to get relief from this anxiety?” I’ve heard many sensitive clients—including myself ask these questions. When you hear yourself ask these questions, be alert. You have just bumped into the... Read more
The key to shedding shame

The key to shedding shame

Remember the Incredible Hulk? The huge, raging green guy in the torn pants? I’d never offer him up as a model for emotional self-regulation. But we highly sensitive people (HSPs) have a lot to learn from the Hulk’s utter disregard for his clothes. Why?... Read more