The high cost of not accepting your sensitivity

The high cost of not accepting your sensitivity

Not accepting your sensitivity can feel “normal” if you grew up being criticized for being “too sensitive.” But HSPs pay a heavy price for trying to be “normal.” As a kid, I felt like the Ugly Duckling: chronically awkward and self-conscious. If you had asked me why,... Read more
Do you need more spaciousness in your life?

Do you need more spaciousness in your life?

The New Year is the perfect time to assess whether you need more spaciousness in your life…because spaciousness is a key element of a sustainable sensitive life. I have a New Year’s question for you: do you have enough spaciousness in your life? Do you have time… …to... Read more
3 questions to move towards the life you want

3 questions to move towards the life you want

As the year comes to an end, you can take charge and move towards the life you want. Here’s a process to help you do just that. 2022 is almost over. When you think of the coming year, do you feel optimistic, or worried? Excited, or overwhelmed? Perhaps you experience... Read more
Why your HSP brain needs breaks

Why your HSP brain needs breaks

Your HSP brain needs breaks. Frequent ones. Here’s information to inspire you to create pauses for yourself throughout the day. A friend sent me a great article last week about the positive effect on the brain of taking frequent-enough breaks. As soon as I read it, I... Read more
The 4 key HSP life tasks

The 4 key HSP life tasks

Dr. Elaine Aron recommends these four key HSP life tasks to heal old pain and create the foundation for a joyful, sustainable sensitive life. It’s getting colder here in upstate New York. The days are getting shorter. Soon, we’ll have to pay the piper for our... Read more
Why are HSPs so vulnerable to perfectionism?

Why are HSPs so vulnerable to perfectionism?

I’ve always been vulnerable to perfectionism, like many highly sensitive people. How can we change this pattern of being hard on ourselves? When I think of perfectionism, I always think of Superman. The call comes in to save the world, and Clark Kent heads to the... Read more