How to melt your shame by being with it

How to melt your shame by being with it

Even if you’ve learned to be painfully hard on yourself, you can melt your shame with awareness and presence. If you’ve ever told yourself you were “too sensitive,” you know how painful that is. To reject a trait you were born with is to reject your very being.... Read more
Are you neurotic to grieve losses in advance?

Are you neurotic to grieve losses in advance?

If you grieve losses in advance, you are not alone—or neurotic. Rather, you are experiencing an aspect of your highly sensitive trait. I feel the poignant sadness that arises at this time each year as the weather gets cooler and my dahlias wither away. I’ve... Read more
An HSP coping with a crisis

An HSP coping with a crisis

Here are my reflections on what it was like for me as an HSP coping with a crisis that occurred in our family in the past two weeks.  Three weeks ago, my dad fell and broke two ribs. He had fallen 20 times in the month before that, but miraculously had not been... Read more