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The danger of overriding your HSP “pause to check” habit

The danger of overriding your HSP “pause to check” habit

Jan 17, 2023 | 2 comments

Are you intimately familiar with your HSP pause-to-check habit? Understanding it will help you approach new situations with both confidence and self-acceptance.   Remember the rule we learned when we were old enough to start crossing the street by ourselves?... Read more
How shaky boundaries turn your sweet self into a cranky ogre

How shaky boundaries turn your sweet self into a cranky ogre

Nov 15, 2022 | 3 comments

Shaky boundaries are a serious issue for HSPs. You have to learn to value your needs and stick up for them, or your inner snow monster will do it for you. I spotted this spectacular snow monster in a neighborhood near ours. It looks like I feel when I don’t set good... Read more
3 reasons to stop labeling yourself “too sensitive”

3 reasons to stop labeling yourself “too sensitive”

Oct 18, 2022 | 13 comments

If you’ve been labeling yourself “too sensitive,” now is the time to give yourself a break. Until you do, others won’t. I’ve never met anyone who enjoys being called “too sensitive.” For a woman in our culture, the label suggests you are touchy, overemotional,... Read more
Why sensitivity + speed= high stress…and 5 ways to put on the brakes

Why sensitivity + speed= high stress…and 5 ways to put on the brakes

Sep 20, 2022 | 7 comments

If you are highly sensitive, you know firsthand that sensitivity + speed= high stress. Don’t accept this as the status quo. Slow down. When I passed this sign near our house, I laughed out loud. I rarely speed behind the wheel. But put me in front of a computer and... Read more
As HSPs, are we more vulnerable to injury and illness?

As HSPs, are we more vulnerable to injury and illness?

Aug 23, 2022 | 7 comments

Highly sensitive people can certainly appear to be more vulnerable to injury and illness. Fortunately we can take steps to lower our risk. I can’t believe five years have passed since our skunk nightmare. An unfortunate skunk, evidently ill, dug through our basement... Read more
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